| Saturday, November 11, 2006 |
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Achievement is a brilliant contribution to self-worth! Setting goals and applying determination and hard work are the routes to getting things accomplished. Wehn you've set a goal and achieved it, the message that you send to yourself is that you are a 'can do' person. Self efficacy-the "I-am-a-capaple-and-competent-person" statement- is a powerful building block for creating positive self-esteem. Self-esteem- the image you hold of yourself- is an important reflection, because just about everything you say and do stems from this picture. The good news is tahtyou have a say in this self-portrait- because the paintbrush is in your hands. Don't forget to add the "colour" of achievement when you're painting a picture of yourself! Ask yourself, "in what ways am I a 'can-do' person?" you find the pearl yourself, afterall it's your pearl, and only you have the ability to find it yourself. You are the one who decides whether you have the strength to carry on doing something. No one can force you to do something that you don't want to do. Afterall, it's your choice. Choices are something we have to make everyday, every minute, every moment. Simply coming online to chat is a choice made. Blogging right now here is also a choice made. "Go, pause, think, go" familiar? Everyday we make choices. We decide what's right and what's wrong. Your nervous system is only connected within your body, no one can control what you do, no one can control how you think. Life is about making choices. If you think you can find your pearl, if you think you want to find your pearl, you can definitely find it. Because whenever God takes things from us, He would definitely keep something for you. YOU, decide it for yourself. be it you have the strength or not, you decide it for yourself. crazier. |